You Should Care More About Your Child'S Well Being Than About Their Accomplishments

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๐Ÿ‘ช ParentingUnconditional Parenting

You should care more about your child's well-being than about their accomplishments.

Focusing on your child's accomplishments usually means rewarding success and often even love-withdrawal if success remains absent.

This will result in more stress and a worse relationship. It can even have a negative impact on the self-esteem of your child, going as far as depression.

Focus on your child's well-being and your relationship. Children's natural curiosity flourishes in the absence of pressure.


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